Tuesday, December 30, 2008
First Meeting of 2009!
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
December Updates
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Valued Family Updates
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Vote Today!!!
Monday, October 13, 2008
Valued Families Celebrates Six Month Milestone!
Friday, October 10, 2008
Reminder Valued Families Meeting Sunday October 12th
Friday, October 3, 2008
Next Meeting Moved to Sunday, October 12th!
Monday, September 29, 2008
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Valued Families Updates- Late September
- Our next meeting is scheduled for next Sunday, October 4th. Kari and I will be out of town so I am proposing two options: a.) We reschedule for Sunday the 12th at Harmony Cafe from 2:00-4:00 OR b.) The meeting proceeds on the 5th as scheduled and one of you lovely parents volunteer to facilitate the meeting, greet new arrivals, make introductions etc. in my place. You can e-mail me or vote on the blog. I'll post a survey.
- It is with some disappointment that I recommend moving our showing of “It’s Elementary” to the spring of next year. I confess I have had much going on in my personal and professional life that has not allowed me the time to dedicate to properly promoting the event. I really want to present it properly in an organized and well-promoted manner and I just don’t feel in the time between now and November 12th that this could be done properly. I would very much like to plan this for late April or early May of 2009I hope I can count on all of you to assist me in the organization and promotion. I will actually be organized enough by then to have assignments to assist! If this is okay with everyone, I would really prefer to wait. Please let me know your thoughts.
- With the holidays approaching I know all of us will be swamped with family, school and work activities but I am hoping to plan something beyond our usual monthly gatherings. Any ideas? Thanksgiving volunteering, Cookie exchange, adopt-a-family, family bowling? Let me know your ideas!
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Dane County WI Advances Gay Rights
Early this morning, the Dane County Board of Supervisors voted 25-9 to create a countywide domestic partner registry and to require that county contractors offer the same health and other benefits to domestic partners of their employees, as they offer to spouses. Ordinance Amendment 13, introduced by Supervisors Chuck Erickson and Kyle Richmond and Board Chair Scott McDonell, makes Dane County the first county in Wisconsin to enact such an ordinance. This ordinance covers all qualified domestic partners, but is particularly important to many lesbian and gay couples who could not otherwise obtain health coverage for their loved one. This ordinance sends a strong signal because it moves our state in the right direction in recognizing the need for legal protections of all families.
Fair Wisconsin strongly supported the passage of this fair-minded legislation. In addition to covering the domestic partner of employees of county contractors, it also provides the governmental registration required by many other employers who already offer domestic partner coverage ( Madison 's registry applies to Madison residents only).
It is important to note that this ordinance only requires equal treatment. It does not mandate domestic partner coverage if an employer does not offer spousal benefits. It doesn't increase benefits, it only includes in an existing plan those who have been unfairly left out in the past.
In addition to health benefits, the ordinance also covers any other plan, program or policy offered as part of the employer's total compensation package, including bereavement leave, family medical leave, sick leave, disability insurance, life insurance, membership discounts, moving expenses, pension and retirement benefits and travel benefits. An employer also has the option to provide a "cash equivalent" if it is practically unable to provide the actual benefit.
I hope you will join me in celebrating this victory for the cause of fairness, in the hopes that it is only the first step to achieving equality for ALL of Wisconsin families.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Rocky Horror Review
Several of us were treated to a really fun evening at the PAC's Rocky Horror Picture Show. VF dad, Joshua, killed it as Dr. Frankenfurter. Great job Joshua! Way to push the comfort level of the Fox Valley's theater goers! See the snap of J and myself after the show.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Fall Madness! Come Join Us!
VF Meeting TODAY, Sunday, September 7th!
Monday, August 18, 2008
Rocky Horror Picture Show at the PAC
Monday, August 4, 2008
From Ariel Gore's Blog
Ariel Gore is a journalist, novelist, and nonfiction author. She is the founding editor and publisher of Hip Mama, an Alternative Press Award-winning publication covering the culture and politics of motherhood. Through her work on Hip Mama, Gore is widely credited with launching maternal feminism and the contemporary mothers' movement. She is the author of several works of fiction and non-fiction including, "The Hipmama's Survival Guide". Ariel lives with her partner Maria and their son in Portland Oregon.
You at the grocery store
I'm in line at the grocery store, my little pint of Coconut Bliss on the belt, baby propped on my hip. He's smiling gleeful mischievous as he pulls my hair.
Comes a voice: "Hey? Ariel?"
I turn around. "Oh, hey–how are you? I haven't seen you in a while."
"Oh my god, I know, and your baby is so CUTE. Congratulations. He's adorable!"
"Thanks, I know. I think he turned out rather well." I'm nodding and smiling and trying not to be socially awkward.
And then you nod and you're silent for a moment before you continue. "Yeah, you know, one of my daughter's classmates has two moms, and you know, he's just a really great kid."
I keep smiling, wonder why you are telling me this. "Cool," I say. "Right on."
"Yeah," you say. "He’s just very normal and great. I mean, we've never had him over or anything--"
And then it dawns on me. You are telling me this because you know that my son has two moms, too, and you want me to know that this is all right with you, and you want me to know that this other boy who has two moms is cool--is normal--and so maybe my adorable baby has some hope of being cool, too, of being normal. Like maybe he won't grow horns from his head after all, and, you know, you won't have us over or anything, but my baby might turn out fine, might turn out good enough even to go to school with your daughter.
"Well, thanks," I say. "That's great news." And it's not like I really want you to be embarrassed, but I'm mildly surprised to see that you're not.
You're not the least bit embarrassed!
So I pay for my pint of non-dairy ice cream and go.
"Meeting Re-cap"
Monday, July 28, 2008
Next "Meeting" this Sunday, August 3rd
Monday, July 21, 2008
Late July Updates
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Mid-Summer Updates
Valued Families News & Dates to Remember:
Volunteers needed to help plan a late- October event. Parent & Educator movie screening of the movies, “It’s Elementary” and “It’s STILL Elementary”.
I will be forming a planning committee in the weeks to come to address logistics, costs, promotion and possible barriers.E-mail Lee at lsnodgrass@tds.net if you are willing to help.
Movie Summary Below:
It's Elementary takes cameras into classrooms across the U.S. to look at one of today's most controversial issues - whether and how gay issues should be discussed in schools. It features elementary and middle schools where (mainly heterosexual) teachers are challenging the prevailing political climate and its attempt to censor any dialogue in schools about gay people. Rather than focusing on the debate between adults, though, the film takes the point of view of the school children, starting as young as first grade. The results are surprising and, as the LA Reader says, "funny, touching, and fascinating." Third graders' jaws drop when they find out some of their favorite celebrities are gay; second graders react to a book about a girl who gets teased because she has two moms; fourth graders say it makes them "feel weird in your stomach" when other kids yell "faggot" on the playground and teachers don't do anything about it; eighth graders fire a barrage of poignant questions to the gay guest speakers who visit their social studies class; third graders passionately debate the current events issue of the day: should gays be allowed to get married?
It's STILL Elementary. This companion film follows up with some of the original students and teachers from It's Elementary and asks them how lessons about LGBT issues affected their lives - and the results are profound. The film also tells the fascinating history of why the original film was made, the infamous response it provoked from the conservative right, and the questions it raises for the national safe schools movement today. It's STILL Elementary is a call to action for parents and educators to continue working for safe, inclusive schools.
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Parent’s Night Out- Thursday July 24th 6:30 PM at Cy’s Asian Bisto in Neenah. Please let me know by July 22 if you plan on attending so I can let Cy’s know how large of a crowd to expect!
Valued Families Pool Day at Erb Park Pool in Appleton planned for Saturday, August 23rd. Very casual, no specific time. Come anytime between 1:30 and 4:00 if the weather is nice. Look for fellow VF families. Erb has a baby pool a middle pool and a large pool. Pool toys and inner tubes are welcome at Erb.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Reminders of Upcoming Gatherings
- Valued Families Meeting- Sunday, July 6th 2:00-4:00 PM City Park
- Harmony Cafe's FREE showings of "For the Bible Tells Me So" , Friday, July 11th at 7:00 PM and 9:00 PM. Please visit, www.forthebibletellsmeso.org for more information.
- Parents Night Out- Thursday July 24th. 6:30-? Location TBD
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Newsweek Column on Gay Marriage
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Valued Families (VF) News and Updates
RAIN LOCATION!!
Monday, June 2, 2008
Reminder! VF Meeting this Sunday, June 8th, 2:00PM
Monday, May 12, 2008
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Valued Families T-shirts, Tote bags, stickers and more!
Monday, May 5, 2008
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Inaugural Meeting of Valued Families Recap
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Meeting Reminder!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Directions to Harmony Cafe
Monday, March 31, 2008
Valued Families First Meeting: May 4th!!
- Feel like you are the only gay or lesbian parent in our community?
- Wish you could network with other parents like you and discuss the unique challenges LGBT parents can face raising children in Northeast Wisconsin?
- Want a collective voice to raise awareness and foster respect for LGBT families in our community?
- Would your children benefit from knowing peers with gay parents?